Interviews

Interview season is upon us, and from the first couple I have been on, I have learned a decent amount.

1. You can not prepare for everything they ask you.
Depending on who is interviewing you and what their position is, each person in the committee could ask you so many different questions. My first interview was with just a science coordinator. I thought that would be the easiest one because we had so much common interest, well little did I know that has turned out to be my hardest interview. He was very specific in little details as aspects of science teaching that I was not prepared to answer. It was a very laid back interview but at the same time, I couldn't help but think that all my preparations for that interview did not really help me out too much.

2. Demo lessons help the interview flow.
I have now given a demo lesson at a school before having an interview and I think it was the best way for the process to work. They were able to see a little bit more about me, other then a cover letter and resume before asking me all of these questions. It felt more like a conversation than an interview. I enjoyed it  because I could use a tangible example that related to what they saw in my lesson that I think helped them understand more of what I was saying and how I would approach my own classroom.

3. It isn't as nerve wracking as I thought
Between student teaching, defending your master's thesis and other things, interviews are pretty small on the radar of things that I should get really worried about. Yes they make a big deal in the scheme of things but at the same time, you just have to be yourself. If you don't know how to be yourself after this many years of life then I don't think you should be trying to be a teacher.

4. 30 minutes goes by FAST
Interviews I always thought would drag but when you start talking about things you are passionate about or experiences you had, time can go really fast. Once about 3 or 4 questions are done, it seems like 30 minutes are getting close depending on how detailed your questions are. Seems crazy that talking in school seemed so long to speak for 30 minutes but now it can go by like that. Just make sure to use those 30 minutes to your advantage and get everything in you wanted to say.

In all, interviews now that I have some under my belt are not feeling that bad and I mean I can only do so much. I show them who I am and who I want to be as a teacher, the rest is up to them.

We will see how it all plays out :)

Trip Home

It always feels good to go home, no matter how short the trip is. My sister and I got home in early June for my mom's birthday. There has been many years since the both of us were home for her birthday and we made sure she had a good time.

First we got to go to a wedding for a family friend's son out on a lake in North Carolina. It was a great day for an outdoor wedding, even a little on the cool side for early June but in all it was very lovely. The brides dress had a shade of blue in it which was different but very elegant too. My mom enjoyed catching up with friends that have been with the family before my sister and I were even born. Even though it was more of an all the day hang out type of wedding, after lunch was served we decided that we would enjoy some more family time at home. Had to get back to Molly of course :)

Here are some photos from the wedding...

For my Mom's birthday we actually had her favorite... well a family favorite.. La Caretta. There isn't a trip to NC that doesn't include Mexican. But in any circumstance, it was tasty! 

The next day we took Molly to go hiking up at Hanging Rock State Park. It was a place my parents had been to but my mom said she had never taken us. It was a great day for a hike and the trail we took was not very crowded so Molly could roam freely. There was lovely scenic views and also some interesting terrain. In all, we had a great time, got a good workout, and got to then come home and enjoy a lovely home cooked family dinner. 

It was a short weekend but at the same time, my mom said it was one of the best birthdays she has ever had. I am glad we could make your day special Mom :)

Running No Matter How Warm

So even though training was not exactly what I had wanted for my most recent half marathon, I said I will still run it and see how I do.

Rich and I had decided we wanted to run it together, to give us both motivation to push through. The weather that Sunday morning in Rhode Island was pushing mid 80's so not the weather had practiced in.

By mile 4, after pushing 7:45 miles, things were getting difficult and we decided to split up to benefit us both for our runs.

The course was a good half marathon course, with not much repeating miles and a good amount of shade (great for this race) and flat areas. After the first 6 miles of splits ever mile, I went the next 6 without knowing where I was in the course.

As my cross country training kicked in, I just focused on reaching the next person in front of me, and passing them and just continuing to slowly pull people in.

When we got to the final push, a nice head wind met me and I actually said to the runner next to me, who had been running next to me the last 2.5 miles, that I was not a huge fan of this. As I approached the last straightaway, I was hoping to be under 1 hour 40 minutes, and right as I could see the clock it hit 1 hour 40 minutes.

Oh well, I still finished with a personal best and a time of 1:41:10, 30 seconds better then my last half. I was 4th in my division and 8th overall for women, so not a bad showing. Rich finished under 2 hours but not near his goal.... Hartford Half here we come.

Here are some good before and after race photos. Gotta love what the sun does to you on a long race!

 Before

 Before

 And after :)

We did it :)

Thanking Mom

This has been a crazy month but I wanted to try to get in as much as I can.

Mother's Day is the time when we all realize how truly special our relationships with our mothers are. Not only would I have probably gone back to school to be a teacher, but had enough faith in myself to reach for my goals. Each person has a different type of relationship with their mom, but that is what makes all of feel we have "the best mom ever."
My mother is far away from me in distance but very close in my heart. I think about her everyday and think about what she has taught me throughout my life. I wish I was distance wise closer to her, but her relationship has strengthened me to be able to be up in Connecticut further from my family knowing that they truly love me and care for me no matter what happens.
My mom has been with me my whole life, and I know she will continue to be. This year I was able to make her a special Mother's Day Brunch and just show her hopefully that she has impacted me in more ways then she will ever know.

I love you mom!

Graduation

In 2008, when I participated in graduation... I thought there was no way I would go back to school. I was ready for a new career, a new lifestyle, and I thought I had spent enough time in a classroom. Little did I know that in 3 years I would be back in the classroom and 4 years later I would be back in Gampel Pavilion receiving another degree.

Getting my Masters was different.. I had more on the line, I had gone back to school for myself and not just because everyone goes to college or higher education. I wanted to change my career, and pretty much my track for the rest of my life. It was special in terms of I really figured out what I wanted to do with my life and how I wanted to actually be in a classroom for the rest of my life :)

As I sat around some of my best friends that I have met, and looked up at my family there, I realized that education is something that everyone has to pursue themselves, and cannot always be pushed upon you. As I embark on a career as an educator myself, I have fully realized that one person can only push students so far, there has to be that drive in them to explore and learn on their own. And when that is found then there can be true knowledge learned.

It was hard to give up what I had to go back to school, but my advice to anyone thinking about it, if you are driven and you know it is what you want, do not let anything get in your way. Your time is short and you should take advantage of any opportunity you have.

Now to my classmates, the future of Educators and anyone else graduating this May... take this new step of your life in stride. Understand that things might not always go the way you planned, but we all will get to where we want to be as long as you stay focused and driven. Conrgats on your accomplishments, to me I hope to see my name outside a middle school classroom come August. We will see where the summer takes me :)

Wonderful Friends

Over the last 11 months I have learned a lot about myself, education, and the pursuit of a perfect lesson plan (still not sure they are out there). But one thing I have learned, is that friends really do make so many crazy times that much better.

This post is dedicated to my lovely TCPCG Group 1 loves out there, representing in 2012. The 16 of you have been everything I have needed to get me through this program. Supporting mothers, mentors, crucial criticizers, comedians, entertainment, and a friendly familiar face each and everyday. Everyday when I pulled into the parking lot and walked upstairs to the 4th floor of the library, I knew that no matter what I was feeling prior to that moment that things would get better. From the inside jokes, the silly nicknames, the funny drama that continues, and the lovely working lunches... we shared very special times. 

I have always had good friends, and I love each of them dearly,  but to share this type of experience with people who really got to know me and I trusted was even more special. I did not have to worry about making a fool of myself in front of you, or bombing a lesson. We grew together and that is what made our bond even more special. When you go through a program that is as rigorous and time consuming as this was, you have to have those friends and classmates that make it worth doing, that give you the extra push to put in that little bit more extra effort you did not think you had. 

As we finished up our last bits of this program today, I really got to see the growth of everyone and the real love we have for each other. Listening to each other as now professionals and educators, instead of just these new faces in an unfamiliar place. We congratulated each other on a great job, complimented designs, and aww'ed at amazing work. I knew we all had it in us, it just was getting polished for awhile.

Thank you TCPCG Group 1 for really showing me that everything is always better when you have a friend to go through it with. I would never take back any of our days over the last 11 months, and know we will have more to come. We will continue to hang out this summer, share stories of first days of school, and even collaborate in schools together (HOPEFULLY!!).

Congrats TCPCG Group 1, we did it! 16 of my best friends, the future educators of the world! Now let's celebrate! (Well until we celebrate each time one of us finds a job!!!!)

Let's Talk about ME!

It is pretty funny, of everyone in the world you feel like you know yourself the best, but sometime show are you supposed to tell someone else about yourself while still being professional?

That is my new big problem these days as I finish up school. JOB APPLICATIONS! You are a name, a sheet of paper in a stack of others, and some how you have to make it so your name POPS and your information is picked up.

I have struggled to figure out how to balance this. I do not want to be cocky but I want to be confident about my skills and my work ethics. I really want the administration to see something in me that I know is there.

As much as we all can talk about ourselves with friends and with family, to talk about what you think or believe in is even harder. You have to be comfortable with it and confident but at the same time not act like you are correct or the best always. You might feel it, and it is fine to have confidence in yourself but it is a balance. I don't want to leave too much off an impression that it is a turn off but enough to make them want to know me more.

Job applications are rough, and the waiting is even more painful. You triple think over everything that you submitted and wrote. Hopefully int he next couple weeks I will have some positive phone calls. I cannot wait to start this next part of my life!